When you want to get your boyfriend back, it can be tempting to see a sexual advance from him as an indication that the relationship is back on track. After, all, that’s how it is for us girls, right? When we’re mad, or hurt, or we don’t feel like sex. We only feel like it when the emotional tone of the relationship is good.
Guys are different. The two processes are quite separate, and you want to be engaging with his emotional processes, not his sexual ones.
Relationships expert Chris Carter says:
Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone… and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.
Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will re-establish the relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mould these two things together in a man’s mind… and keep them connected.
If you aren’t fully aware of the hidden processes in your man’s mind, you may well have sex with him at exactly the wrong time, send him the wrong message, and mess things up forever.
Until you know exactly what you are doing, just don’t have sex with your ex. Full stop. Not if you want him back.
If you want to get your boyfriend back, you will have to work through the process guaranteed to save your relationship, which has been used by hundreds of women before you, and is proven to work.
On the bright side, if he’s being physically affectionate it’s a good indication that he is still attracted to you, and you have a good chance to get your boyfriend back, if you just play your cards right. Keep your pants on, keep a clear head, and follow these little-known secrets of psychology to get your boyfriend back.
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